Today is a Father's Day, everyone has celebrated. My Father is a teacher has busy right now this School Year, when I open my Facebook Account today wrote the message greetings here and I send him.
Now I stay here at home and I try to doing it.
I remember my father will helping to do this when preparing before the opening the School Year 2014-15.
When his classroom clean up when I wipe out the chairs avoiding alikabok. The next thing was changing curtains and done. My father said it was a good fair today, when is all right.
Now my father has almost doing himself, playing chess, writing his own lesson plans and prepairing for his discusses during their lesson with their Grade 5 pupils.
My father is such a good for me, I never hurt me, I took helping me, and I loving him, it's a good pleasure to me especially my father.
Happy Father's Day everyone :) and God Bless.
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Emotions: Up and Down
Why Humans Bother With Emotions
Meredith F. Small | April 03, 2008 08:00pm ET
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I'm sad, I'm angry, I'm happy, I'm anxious.
At the end of the day, I'm physically and mentally exhausted from the whirling dervish that seems to have taken over my head.
Why do we have emotions? Wouldn't it better to have the heart and soul of a lizard and feel nothing at all?
It's easy to understand why we have good emotions. Happy people live happy lives and make for happy mates. Presumably, all that happiness translates into passing on genes. Other positive emotions such as love and attachment are, in fact, essential for bringing up children, those little packets of genes.
Harder to explain are the "bad" emotions such as fear, anxiety, anger and hate. Why would evolution fill our heads with such negativity?
It may be that emotionality comes as an all-inclusive package and so you have to take the good with the bad; with love comes its evil twin hate, with happiness comes the flip side of sadness.
But evolutionary psychiatrist Randolph Nesse of the University of Michigan thinks that individual emotions are actually adaptations selected by evolution to help us cope with specific situations.
Nesse calls emotions "the mind's software." Faced with a sad situation, the mind brings up the sadness program to cope, and when the situation brightens, the mind get into the happiness loop.
For Nesse, it's not so much about the specific emotions, as the situations, because many emotions have similar cognitive, psychological and physiological effects. Faced with a situation, our feelings ratchet up and any number of emotions can, for example, put the body on alert, shut it down, change thinking patterns or motivate behavior. What matters is not so much the name of some emotions as what the mind and body does with it.
The bottom line is that over evolutionary time, those emotions that have been useful in keeping people alive, compelling them to mate and bring up offspring, and so they have been have been hammered into our brains, even if we don’t like them.
And since humans are fundamentally social animals, Nesse also points out that we have specific social emotions that are also deeply embedded in human nature. We are animals that, in the deepest sense, rely on others for survival. And so we don't just have personal emotions, we have ones that ensnare us with the actions and emotions of others.
"If you go ahead and do something that makes the other person angry, you are likely to feel guilty," writes Nesse.
That's why we are able to trust others (the good part) and feel betrayed (the bad part), and here, too, we apparently have to take the good with the bad.
Fact is, without these complex social emotions that involve others, we'd be stuck back in the forest, living alone in the trees.
Nesse's point is that all emotions are "good," at least in the evolutionary sense. They are there to help us, and they bring hope. Even in the depth of sadness, we always know that the opposite feeling of happiness might bubble up.
And how would we recognize the happy part without experiencing the sad part?
Courtesy: http://www.livescience.com/2431-humans-bother-emotions.html
Sunday, June 8, 2014
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